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You Don’t Have to Forgive Lane Kiffin to Appreciate What He Did at Ole Miss

Opinion

Author’s note: This proud Mississippi State alum is not trying to tell you what to think. I just want to give you something to think about.

There are going to be plenty of emotions in Oxford when Lane Kiffin returns to Vaught-Hemingway Stadium wearing LSU’s colors. Many of them will have little to do with the football being played.

Ole Miss fans haven’t forgotten. Many haven’t forgiven. And honestly, I understand why.

Kiffin didn’t simply leave Ole Miss. He accepted the LSU job on Nov. 30, 2025, after leading the Rebels to an 11-1 regular season that put them on the doorstep of their first College Football Playoff appearance. He was gone before they played a single playoff game.

And he didn’t leave for just anybody. He left for LSU, an SEC rival Ole Miss fans knew they would have to see again.

I understand the anger. But I also think something has been lost in all the noise: You don’t have to forgive Lane Kiffin to appreciate what he did at Ole Miss.

Those two things can exist at the same time.

Don’t rewrite the history

Kiffin spent six seasons at Ole Miss and went 55-19. His tenure produced four seasons with at least 10 wins, including three in a row to finish his time in Oxford. His teams reached the national top 10 in at least one poll in five consecutive seasons, and the program earned six straight postseason berths.

Then came 2025: an 11-1 regular season and the Rebels’ first College Football Playoff appearance. Under newly appointed head coach Pete Golding, Ole Miss beat Tulane and Georgia before falling to Miami in the national semifinal, finishing 13-2.

That is not a footnote. That is a transformation.

Kiffin helped make sustained national relevance an expectation in Oxford. Ten wins stopped feeling like a dream. A top-10 ranking stopped feeling like a novelty. Meaningful football in November became something fans could expect.

You don’t have to like the way he left to acknowledge what he accomplished.

But I still have a problem with the way he left.

The timing mattered. The circumstances mattered. His decision to accept another job before the biggest postseason in Ole Miss football history mattered.

There is an important distinction here: Kiffin wanted to continue coaching Ole Miss in the playoff after accepting the LSU job, and Ole Miss declined. That does not erase his responsibility for choosing LSU when he did, but it is part of the story.

Kiffin has since acknowledged regretting how the departure unfolded. In a July interview with ESPN, he said he should have accepted athletic director Keith Carter’s decision and left instead of prolonging the dispute over coaching in the playoff.

Even Kiffin appears to understand that the ending could have been handled better.

What if Ole Miss had gotten more time?

I keep coming back to a question we will never be able to answer: What if Kiffin had waited to take another job until Ole Miss finished its season?

Not forever. Not another year. Just long enough to see that team’s postseason through.

Maybe the Rebels would have lost to Tulane. Maybe they would have lost to Georgia. Maybe Miami would have beaten them just the same.

Or maybe they would have won.

We will never know. What we do know is that Ole Miss won its first two playoff games without him and reached the national semifinal. Golding, his staff and those players deserve credit for that achievement.

Still, I will always wonder what might have happened if Kiffin had remained on that sideline. A championship was not guaranteed. But the possibility is what makes the question so difficult to put away.

Had the Rebels won it all before he left, imagine how differently that departure might be remembered. Kiffin would have left Oxford as a national champion, and Ole Miss fans would have had a championship to celebrate for generations.

Instead, the breakup became a defining part of the story.

The calendar deserves scrutiny, too

College football deserves some blame for the circumstances that helped produce that ending. Not all of it, but some.

The transfer portal, NIL, recruiting, coaching searches and roster management have created overlapping demands. Programs begin preparing for the next season while the current one is still being played. Coaches are pursued while their teams are chasing championships, and schools feel pressure to move before somebody else does.

That is not an excuse for Kiffin. He made his choice. LSU made its choice. Ole Miss made its choice.

But the environment helped create the situation, and I don’t think a fair examination of what happened can ignore it.

Fans should be able to watch a team finish its season without wondering whether its coaching staff will still be together for the next game. The sport should take that problem seriously.

Gratitude and disappointment can coexist

Ole Miss fans can be angry. They can boo Kiffin, cheer against him and want the Rebels to beat LSU as badly as they have ever wanted a win.

That is college football. That emotion is part of what makes the sport different.

But one ugly chapter should not erase six years of history. Doing that would be unfair to the players who played for Kiffin, the coaches who worked alongside him and the fans who experienced moments they had waited years to see.

Kiffin did not build everything by himself. He inherited players, hired coaches and benefited from administrators, boosters, fans and resources. The success belonged to a program and its people.

He was also the head coach. He deserves credit for what happened on his watch, just as he deserves criticism for how his time in Oxford ended.

Both can be true.

When Kiffin walks back into Vaught-Hemingway Stadium, some will see the coach who left. Others will remember the coach who helped change their expectations for Ole Miss football. Plenty will see both.

His legacy does not have to be either/or. It can include gratitude and disappointment, great memories and a bitter ending.

Maybe that is what happens when somebody helps you reach a place you have never been before, then leaves before you find out how far the journey could go.

Ole Miss fans don’t have to forgive Lane Kiffin. They don’t have to forget what happened.

But they shouldn’t forget what happened before it.

Kiffin did not leave Ole Miss as a failure. He left as one of the most successful coaches in the program’s history.

You can hate the way he left without hating everything he left behind.